Look Before You Jump Into a Relationship/Marriage and Save Yourself a Lot of Stress, Money, and Time

When you apply for life insurance, they don't just give it out. They ask some questions to determine the risks and based on the answers to some questions, the life insurance companies will make a decision based on risk analysis. In a similar way, we can save a lot of hassle in our life, if we do some risk analysis in relationships and marriages. Here are some guidelines. 1. Get the past history. History does repeat itself. Thus if the person has caused problems in the past, the probability is very high the person will repeat history. 2. Find out about the family history. A bitter fruit from a tree, means the tree produces only bitter fruits. Don't waste time with this tree, if you want good fruits. In a similar way, If the family have members with serious problems, the probability is very high, the person you are about to pick will be bitter too. 3. Get references on the family. This is help to get the truth out, because nobody is going to tell the truth. They can't hide the truth from others. 4. Like-minded people make a good match. Unlike minded people will clash. Your interests, likes and dislikes should be matched with the other person. If there are significant differences, then you are not like minded and you will clash more often. a. Basic things like food is also very important. For example if one is a vegetarian, it makes no sense to partner with a killer (meat eater). b. If one believes that slavery is wrong, then it makes no sense to partner with those who follow an ideology that advocates slavery c. If one believes in love for all, then it makes no sense to partner with those who hate others who are different d. If one believes God has a form, then it makes no sense to partner with those who believe God has no form 5. Think of your future and that of your children, your partner will influence what your children will believe in and follow. So make sure, you and partner beliefs are the same. Otherwise there will be disaster for you and your children. 6. A little patience will save you a lot of misery. Keep in mind that divorce is very, marriage based depression is very high, relationship based depression is very high. Don't give up your higher values for bodily lust. The body is nothing but chemicals and dirt, with a lot of false ego. 7. There is plenty of fish in the ocean, don't get too attached to one tiny fish. The above alone is worth a lot to anybody who follows it and will save you from tension, depression, court cases and your life. Kamlesh Patel http://www.EternalReligion.org Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Kamlesh_C_Patel Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/9043969